Justification

‘I didn’t think that what I was doing was so wrong because we were over…’ This is what he said to me the other day. Had he forgotten the four attempts of IVF that we had gone through last year whilst he was having his affair. How does working on adding to our family make this over? Is this the way he justified everything to himself? Such a coward. I’d imagine you would have to have a huge justification in mind in order to be able to do what he did. He says he wishes everyday that this would of all happened differently. 

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4 thoughts on “Justification

  1. Either a huge justification in mind, or the complete opposite of absolutely nothing at all. Which is also hard to understand. Their thinking makes no sense to us either way because it doesn’t make sense. I’ve stopped trying to understand insanity because it was driving me crazy.

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  2. Yeah it sounds like that’s how he’s been justifying it to himself. It would have been nice if he had let you in on what he had been feeling. Of course when you are going through IVF together, you wouldn’t be thinking that the relationship is over!

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